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Helping Couples Rebuild, Reconnect
& Rekindle Lasting Love

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About Reta

With over 25 years of experience as a relationship therapist, I’ve sat with thousands of couples navigating disconnection, conflict, and the quiet ache of feeling unseen. My work is about guiding you back to each other—with clarity, compassion, and practical tools that help love not just survive, but truly thrive. Whether you’re in a season of repair or simply longing for more depth, I offer a path forward that’s grounded, supportive, and designed for real change.

Work With Me

I offer a warm, collaborative space to help you and your partner feel heard and understood. Together, we'll uncover unhelpful patterns, improve communication, and rebuild trust for a more secure, lasting connection.

  • One-on-One Counselling

    Personalised, one-on-one support to reduce stress, navigate challenges, and help you feel more emotionally connected in your relationship.

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  • The Fast-Track Fix™

    A focused, 2-hour session designed to help you move through a specific challenge with clarity and confidence - perfect for when you're feeling stuck and need a breakthrough.

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  • Lasting Love Transformation

    A deep-dive couples program designed to help you rebuild trust, improve communication, and reignite emotional and physical intimacy - one step at a time.

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  • Lasting Love Courses

    Self-paced courses packed with tools, prompts, and timeless insights to help you strengthen your relationship from the inside out - at your own pace.

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Client Love

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Client Love 🤍

  • “I have been working with Reta for over 9 years. She has helped me with personal growth, and family and marriage relationships over the years. My marriage would not be as strong as it is now if it weren't for Reta's support and skills. Reta encompasses the professional that you want to work with. She has the right balance of compassion, directness, and experience that are necessary to support you through life's challenges and she is still my go-to when I need support.”

    J.B.

  • "In middle age, I was drowning in the complexity of raising a family, managing a career, and maintaining a relationship that had evolved over time. Reta helped me understand and respond to deeper unrecognized needs, communicate to learn more about those around me, and collaborated with me to achieve the path of optimal health. I will continue to recommend her to anyone looking for a professional therapist."

    T.D.

  • "Reta supported us with reconnecting in our marriage after feeling distant and strained. We have two very young children and through job changes and the hecticness of life, we needed to come back together. Reta helped us to reconnect and remember what we love about one another."

    R.B. & A.B.

  • "During a time of personal burnout and changes in many areas of my life Reta helped me prepare for situations with my work, personal and family relationships. I am grateful for her recommendations and observations which helped me navigate towards a happier future."

    C.W.

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REAL CONNECTION IS POSSIBLE.
Heal patterns. Rebuild trust. Find your way back to each other.

With the right support, your relationship can shift from strain to strength - creating a love that feels secure, respectful, and truly seen.

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My Book - Guide To Lasting Love

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by career demands, parenting responsibilities, or the stress of daily life, it’s easy for your relationship to take a back seat. The Guide to Lasting Love is here to help you reconnect, communicate with empathy, and strengthen the bond you share.